Thursday, December 27, 2007

Letting go.....

There are two types of letting go...
one is when you let go of a situation, a person and when you stop clinging..
and the other kind of letting go is when you let yourself go - when you let go of your musts and shoulds and coulds and all the funny rules you make for yourself and for other people...
the funniest part about making rules for other people is that they dont even know those rules exist...coz they exist in your damned head not theirs - and this is what causes maximum pain - when someone doesnt live upto my rules - then we get into metaphysical deabtes about why people behave the way they do and what is the world coming to..
Have you ever met a person who was stuck - so stuck that it showed in his body language - so stuck that you almost pity him / her - coz s/he's never probably even let himself feel completely - feel and express the full range of emotions a human being is capable of - feel and express himself without worrying about 'letting your guard down' and someone taking advantage of you..without worrying - PERIOD!!!
Kitna zindagi main miss karte hain...so much...

1 comment:

Amy E said...

I so know what you're talking about. Or at least I think I do. You just want to shake that person, open their eyes, and watch how happy they could be. I've tried to coax someone out, to make them let go, but of course when it comes to it you can't make anyone do anything metaphysical as it is truly for them and them alone to decide. xx