We had a fire in our office building - and what do you think we should have done - Evacuate, of course!!! Did we?? Nah!!! We rationalized - its a small fire - we'll be able to contain it - dont panic - dont worry - and all that.
Should there even be a question in our minds about evacuation? It raises two very fundamental issues - one, yeh hum log office attendance , productivity ko human life ke aage rakhte hain.
And two, isnt this what we always do in life - neglect doing the obvious till its too late.
In a relationship, which is obviously abusive - here the response options range from - but 'he really loves me' to 'where will I go' to 'he has a problem and I will help him get over it' to 'i love him and cant live without him'
Hello?? What about loving yourself? Lekin bhai - evacuate? This is not what I learnt - this is not strength and courage of conviction and fortitude and all things high and lofty.
How can I evacuate on people??
Hmmmm...yeh to duvidha hai.
But like a building on fire - some people are on a path to self destruction - I think its only fair to yourself to pause and choose - do I want to burn with this person - or will I evacuate?
Monday, February 25, 2008
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